04 December 2013


Are you letting negative thoughts create your reality?


Thoughts are really interesting things. We have got so many of them running in our head every day. Though we are so used to some of them being there that we sometimes forget how important they can be in the design of our own life.


Thoughts are like a string of light carrying the programming or code that will create our reality and the experiences that we are going through in the now moment.  


When the thought is positive and coming from a place of love, it is wonderful and creates the most beautiful experiences. When the thought is what could be described as negative, because it carries a negative charge (whether emotional or mental) and is coming from a place of fear, suffering, lack or pain, it can create difficult and challenging experiences that are not aligned with what our core self/ our soul would like to be experiencing in the now moment.


In our day to day life, a lot of our thoughts are running on auto-pilot, and so, sometimes, we do not realize how they are influencing our life.

 It becomes really interesting when we take a look at a thought that we may have been holding for some time. It could be about a project that we would like to create or something that we would like to manifest within our reality but we think that it is not possible, or that we don’t have the skills required to do it, or that our partner will not allow us to do it, or whatever other reasons and thoughts may come up for us to justify the fact that we cannot manifest what it is that we would like to manifest. 

Now, if we base our actions on those negative and limiting thoughts, then of course we will not achieve what we want to achieve as we are already defeating ourselves and thinking it is not possible. So we will not take the actions (some of which we may label as risky as they may bring up some of our fears) that would be necessary to create this outcome and will stop ourselves from dreaming big about the possibilities attached to that outcome thus not allowing ourselves to create what our heart truly desires. 

Now, if we turn around the thoughts and base our actions on the fact that it is possible, that we may not have the skills yet but could develop them, or that there should be at least one option/ possibility where we can do what we truly want to do whilst also respecting our partner and taking into account his/ her own needs (aka finding a win-win solution that suits everybody), then we are shifting our mindset and allowing ourselves the possibility to see our projects and dreams come true.


As we take actions and think about what we could do from a positive mindset, then millions of ideas are flowing through and everything becomes possible.


With much love & light,



Noëlie works with clients worldwide in French, English and Spanish. She specializes in helping her clients go beyond their fears, blocks and limitations in order to create a life that is fulfilling to them. She uses various tools including mind-body techniques, meditations, visualizations, coaching and self-development tools. She is also an intuitive & spiritual healer and EFT practitioner. She uses her understanding of energy healing and dynamics in order to go deeper with her clients and track the energy root cause of problems. Read more about Noëlie